22 replies and no mention of oral sex?
Lots and lots of oral sex.
Edit: Receiving it, not blowing guys.
My stress all disappeared years ago after my wife passed. She wasn't the root of my stress--far from it--it just made me realize that after the hell we went through for 6+ years with her sick and doing everything to keep her alive, to lose her--it just made me realize how little control we have over anything. Stressing never accomplished anything. Like the saying goes, worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do, but doesn't get you anywhere.
I used to live by the credo, don't sweat the small stuff.
After my wife got sick, I changed that to don't sweat the small stuff and the meduim stuff.
After she died, I changed that to don't sweat the small stuff, the medium stuff OR the big stuff.
End cliche filled advice.