Originally Posted by neevsmazda07
naw that wasnt me. its bitter sweet for me. over the years she just kept losing sight in what was important in the marriage just like i did as well. it always felt to me like i was single except for paying more in bills from her excess. im thinking right now maybe because im the type of person i am, maybe i was never meant to be married...
I suppose sooner is better than later with these things. Just have to put the children first. Try to make things as quick and painless as they can be. It is going to be hard on everyone involved, there is no sense is making it any harder. I am not sure if I would go public with anyone right away. Try to keep the new relationship private. You might get lucky and your wife might find someone soon which would make things easier, but to be dating so soon might not be a good thing for you to do. Wifey might get pissed and try to stick it to you.
How old are you?