Originally Posted by DDNYjets
Dude you're only 30. You got a lot of life ahead of you. You got your kids. You have a lot to be happy about. I've never been married or divorced but from what I hear, the pain will pass. Its a good thing that you feel pain. It means your human. Divorce should hurt. But you can use this as an opportunity to learn and become a better person, a better parent and a better partner. The hurt you are going through now will make the futures joys even sweeter.
Its a process.
lmao im sorry but whenever i hear anybody say "its a process" i always think of one of mangini's pressers. but about your post, yea i have been getting that reaction from some that at my age i could still make some form of a decent recovery. i guess i would feel better knowing that she would not take the kids away from me or take most if not all of my stuff. so far she is keeping the house and the minivan. lets see what happens from there.