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Originally Posted by neevsmazda07
she claims that she only wants me to make sure that the kids are taken care of and the rest she can handle. she has the house and the car so to me she is ahead of me in that aspect.
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Bad move, bro.
It only costs $5 to file a separation agreement with the county. And as far as child support goes, pay 25% - 30% of your income to her. Starting now.
Give her the car, help her get an apt...but you stay in your current house. Keep the kids as much as possible, don't just opt for weekends or weekdays.
If you willingly pay CS without a court order, stay in your house, have the kids a lot and help her get on her feet...no matter how batty she may get in court (which happens a lot...even when it begins amicably. wait until she sees you with another hot chick) you'll look like the stable one.
And NEVER pay support with cash. ALWAYS write a check.