Originally Posted by shuler82
i'm not judging in the least. again, i am asking why i should respect someone who put their 'job' first after the death of a sibling? good for him. but to 'respect' him for it? again.. why?
it's a nice story, and yeah, i'm rooting for him.. but to respect him for that decision? should i NOT respect someone in a similar position who decides to sit out?
You are right. I guess no respect should be given for those who go right back to work OR those who take time to grieve after the death of a loved one.
You should respect both, which by your statements, you clearly do not. You are too hung up on being devils advocate to realize you make no sense.