Guys take this stuff too seriously. Some real cool posters got caught up in that stuff and are missed, but in the interim, many more came along.
Here's a tip; If you get yer knickers in a bunch over something you read, percieved etc. on a site...just stop posting/reading for a while and dont burn bridges. Then come back and see if it really was that important.
We all get caught up, myself included...and that french fried *****t.