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Bonhomme Richard · 11-27-2012, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by thebigragu

100% !me commmmmmmmonn you guys remember my posting. Imagine real life behind the keyboard. Real people real problems. Some real smart chunky kid said that once

Well then she must be quite a woman to want you back. Plus you get your kid back too. So rarely do we get second chances in life. My advice: don't **** it up a second time.

BushyTheBeaver · 11-27-2012, 11:13 AM

This should be a poll.

thebigragu · 11-27-2012, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Bonhomme Richard

Well then she must be quite a woman to want you back. Plus you get your kid back too. So rarely do we get second chances in life. My advice: don't **** it up a second time.

That's exactly what my father would have said. Don't **** it up.

Dad going to work ........dont **** it up

Dad made alot of money,this year...... don't **** it up

Dad bought a new car.........don't **** it up.

Should put that on a t shirt

JetinHuntersville · 11-27-2012, 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by thebigragu

The guys that know well they know. Ff2 was quite fond of her. Anyhow she wants,to come and spend Christmas with me her and my son. Flash backwards I was a crazy alcoholic money making machine with serious character flaws that affected anyone even crossing my path. Treated her quite bad in the end. I was wrong and never blamed her for leaving.

Flash foward quit drinking liver disease liver transplant two years sober remarkable personality transformation I credit God and God alone. Sry atheist scum. Plumber.

Beautiful hot in the pants Asian girlfriend live in gf.,things quite serious. Though she is not done partying never had kids from Vegas and is flighty,sometimes.

Ex and,Gf hot equal but different. Edge no one

Sex gf is a freak. Edge gf

Ex has my,son and is a great mother and wife. Edge ex

Ex gf both great conversation fun to be,with. Edge no one

Ex feels we owe it,to our son to see if, with me being like I am now if we would have always stayed together. If there is still love there. So we should see what happens over Christmas. She has been very respectful of my relationship and said,she felt she just had to say it before the chance was gone forever.

Hampur you are once again making real life decisions. God be with you.

First, congratulations on turning your life around. I hope this all works for you. Any chance of keeping the ex and current both around?

What kind of work did you do that you were a money making machine. I'd love to be a small kink in a money making machine.

thebigragu · 11-27-2012, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by JetinHuntersville

First, congratulations on turning your life around. I hope this all works for you. Any chance of keeping the ex and current both around?

What kind of work did you do that you were a money making machine. I'd love to be a small kink in a money making machine.

Fifth.... Nice try DA paradise

JetinHuntersville · 11-27-2012, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by thebigragu

Fifth.... Nice try DA paradise

What does that mean?

southside · 11-27-2012, 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by JetinHuntersville

What does that mean?

If you have to ask, you can't afford it.

JetinHuntersville · 11-27-2012, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by southside

If you have to ask, you can't afford it.

I know I can't afford it, whatever the hell it is. Just want to know what it means.

JetinHuntersville · 11-27-2012, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by thebigragu

Fifth.... Nice try DA paradise

Ok, maybe it means pleading the fifth and it may not be 100% legal? Ok, I'll shut up. Now, about the 3-some....

thebigragu · 11-27-2012, 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by JetinHuntersville

What does that mean?

I was s buisness owner. With partners. Just messing around with you.

No chance keeping both. Maybe for this month yeah

Jets Things · 11-27-2012, 11:32 AM

I'll ask the question I'm surprised FFDootz hasn't asked yet - who is the better cook?

thebigragu · 11-27-2012, 11:36 AM

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I'll ask the question I'm surprised FFDootz hasn't asked yet - who is the better cook?

Gf a chef but will never cook ever. Rarely will clean anything but tries

Ex cooks good but is the best old school mom laundry cleaning etc.. Immaculate house

southside · 11-27-2012, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by thebigragu

Gf a chef but will never cook ever. Rarely will clean anything but tries

Ex cooks good but is the best old school mom laundry cleaning etc.. Immaculate house

This really is a no brainer.

Gata · 11-27-2012, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by 32green

pics or gtfo

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I wanna see

AlwaysGreenAlwaysWhite · 11-27-2012, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Gata

I wanna see

+2's

geekbeatking · 11-27-2012, 11:53 AM

Hey
I am currently in a similar situation as you, albeit on the opposite side of this. 1 year divorced from an amazing woman who developed an alcohol problem that disintegrated our marriage. We were together for 18 years. In that year, I have watched her turn her life around and become sober, driven , and mentally clear. She has reverted back to the person I loved mentally, physically, and spiritually.

I also have a really special girlfriend who provides things that she never did, but in the end it will never be the same. I am reconciling with my ex wife because she has proven to me by dramatically turning her life around that she is serious about beginning again. Like a phoenix from the ashes comes a new tier to the relationship.

Maybe you guys don't get back together, maybe you just become good friends. Either way it is healthy for you and your family to reconcile and grow from there.

Gata · 11-27-2012, 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by geekbeatking

Hey
I am currently in a similar situation as you, albeit on the opposite side of this. 1 year divorced from an amazing woman who developed an alcohol problem that disintegrated our marriage. We were together for 18 years. In that year, I have watched her turn her life around and become sober, driven , and mentally clear. She has reverted back to the person I loved mentally, physically, and spiritually.

I also have a really special girlfriend who provides things that she never did, but in the end it will never be the same. I am reconciling with my ex wife because she has proven to me by dramatically turning her life around that she is serious about beginning again. Like a phoenix from the ashes comes a new tier to the relationship.

Maybe you guys don't get back together, maybe you just become good friends. Either way it is healthy for you and your family to reconcile and grow from there.

A beautiful insightful post in the Hampur.

The world is def on the verge of a Zombiepocalypse

JaxSuzy · 11-27-2012, 11:58 AM

OK, female perspective here. Any chance your GF will let you spend Christmas with your ex and kid - without GF? My parents did that for me and my brothers, and since they were amiable it felt good. That might be a good trial run.

Since your drinking was the reason your marriage ended, and you have a kid together, I think it's worth another try. You don't have to live together immediately. I'd recommend you date your ex for a bit to see if she's able to forgive you and move forward. She should go to Al-Anon to work on her previous justifiable anger about your drinking.

Other poster was right: hot sex doesn't last forever. Do you still find your ex sexy? LOL other guys - there's NO CHANCE of a 3-some in this situation!

32green · 11-27-2012, 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by geekbeatking

Hey
I am currently in a similar situation as you, albeit on the opposite side of this. 1 year divorced from an amazing woman who developed an alcohol problem that disintegrated our marriage. We were together for 18 years. In that year, I have watched her turn her life around and become sober, driven , and mentally clear. She has reverted back to the person I loved mentally, physically, and spiritually.

I also have a really special girlfriend who provides things that she never did, but in the end it will never be the same. I am reconciling with my ex wife because she has proven to me by dramatically turning her life around that she is serious about beginning again. Like a phoenix from the ashes comes a new tier to the relationship.

Maybe you guys don't get back together, maybe you just become good friends. Either way it is healthy for you and your family to reconcile and grow from there.

Just be careful you werent the one that drove he to drink to begin with.

That would suck.

j/k- glad to hear things turned around for you.

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Bonhomme Richard · 11-27-2012, 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by thebigragu

Gf a chef but will never cook ever. Rarely will clean anything but tries

Ex cooks good but is the best old school mom laundry cleaning etc.. Immaculate house

Dude, come on. You're answering your own question here. Crawl back on your hands and knees if that's what it takes.

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11-27-2012, 11:13 AM	#42
BushyTheBeaver size matters All League Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 3,929	This should be a poll.

11-27-2012, 11:32 AM	#51
Jets Things All Pro Join Date: May 2003 Location: 742 Evergreen Terrace Posts: 9,426	I'll ask the question I'm surprised FFDootz hasn't asked yet - who is the better cook?

11-27-2012, 11:53 AM	#56
geekbeatking Thanks the multiverse the train wreck is over. Undrafted Free Agent Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Saugerties, NY Posts: 152	Hey I am currently in a similar situation as you, albeit on the opposite side of this. 1 year divorced from an amazing woman who developed an alcohol problem that disintegrated our marriage. We were together for 18 years. In that year, I have watched her turn her life around and become sober, driven , and mentally clear. She has reverted back to the person I loved mentally, physically, and spiritually. I also have a really special girlfriend who provides things that she never did, but in the end it will never be the same. I am reconciling with my ex wife because she has proven to me by dramatically turning her life around that she is serious about beginning again. Like a phoenix from the ashes comes a new tier to the relationship. Maybe you guys don't get back together, maybe you just become good friends. Either way it is healthy for you and your family to reconcile and grow from there.

11-27-2012, 11:58 AM	#58
JaxSuzy WTF is going on up there?!? Rookie Join Date: Nov 2012 Posts: 547	OK, female perspective here. Any chance your GF will let you spend Christmas with your ex and kid - without GF? My parents did that for me and my brothers, and since they were amiable it felt good. That might be a good trial run. Since your drinking was the reason your marriage ended, and you have a kid together, I think it's worth another try. You don't have to live together immediately. I'd recommend you date your ex for a bit to see if she's able to forgive you and move forward. She should go to Al-Anon to work on her previous justifiable anger about your drinking. Other poster was right: hot sex doesn't last forever. Do you still find your ex sexy? LOL other guys - there's NO CHANCE of a 3-some in this situation!