Ok you lucky bastards. Ex wife has been in contact everyday and wants back in

[RaoulDuke]

Originally Posted by 32green

And it never changes.
I was at the gym this morning and the lockeroom attendant, who is about 72, is going "my wife wants to move the furniture around in the living room". I hear a room full of groans coming from all the other dudes as they shake their heads. Then he said "everything she wants me to do....is stupid." and you hear all the dudes going "oh yeah, got that right. etc."

Got a big kick out of that.

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If sex didn't exist, we'd all be full blown fairies with our best buddies.

[geekbeatking]

Originally Posted by 32green

Just be careful you werent the one that drove he to drink to begin with.

That would suck.












j/k- glad to hear things turned around for you.

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Haha. Accountability and acceptance go a long way.

[leftturn3]

Find me a hot Asian over 40-45, hard to do, they just do not hold up for some reason.

Asian's in their prime (20-30) are just some of the most unbelievable looking girls I have ever seen, just so hot, after thsat they hit the wall.

Staying power, advantage most likely EX.

[SONNY WERBLIN]

Originally Posted by thebigragu

Yes I understand that and have seen it too. But borgo the problem seriously was my drinking and insane temper. I do feel I owe it to her to see what im like sober. Drinking in my case is never an option again. It,would literally be jumping off a bridge. She really got the worst of the worst with me and still tried,to make it work. Know what im saying

If you truly feel the reason for the break-up of your marriage was you and not her, that you would still be together but for your now-changed behavior, and that you still love you ex, .... I think you've answered your own question.

[Jets Things]

Originally Posted by leftturn3

Find me a hot Asian over 40-45, hard to do, they just do not hold up for some reason.

Asian's in their prime (20-30) are just some of the most unbelievable looking girls I have ever seen, just so hot, after thsat they hit the wall.

Staying power, advantage most likely EX.

The *Great* wall?

[32green]

Originally Posted by Jets Things

The *Great* wall?

RMFAO!!!!!

[shakin318]

My advice to anything is invariably "start drinking heavily," so I'm going to step off here.

[crasherino]

Originally Posted by Gata

A beautiful insightful post in the Hampur.

The world is def on the verge of a Zombiepocalypse

Well, not to his current gf its not!

To Ragu - unless you think the chances of it working out are slim (and it sounds like that's not the case), having a child involved makes it a no brainer.

In some instances, with two dysfunctional, fighting adults, a child may very well be better off with divorced parents. But, assuming everything you're giving us is the straight poop, its a layup to me.....You should do what you need to do to make the family whole (again assuming that will also make you happy).

Perhaps get a hidden video of the current gf while you still can???

[thebigragu]

Originally Posted by geekbeatking

Hey
I am currently in a similar situation as you, albeit on the opposite side of this. 1 year divorced from an amazing woman who developed an alcohol problem that disintegrated our marriage. We were together for 18 years. In that year, I have watched her turn her life around and become sober, driven , and mentally clear. She has reverted back to the person I loved mentally, physically, and spiritually.

I also have a really special girlfriend who provides things that she never did, but in the end it will never be the same. I am reconciling with my ex wife because she has proven to me by dramatically turning her life around that she is serious about beginning again. Like a phoenix from the ashes comes a new tier to the relationship.

Maybe you guys don't get back together, maybe you just become good friends. Either way it is healthy for you and your family to reconcile and grow from there.

Outstanding happy for you. Thanks.


Hampur rules

[Fishooked]

Originally Posted by Jets Things

The *Great* wall?

ROR!

[quantum]

Originally Posted by 32green

Nah....not them, you.

You were hot, all skinny n bald.... and wearing that ninja spaceman suit.

Yum yum spaceman

omnomnomnomnomnomnomnomnom

really sick, but really funny.

I'm torn.








not really.


I vote to stay with GF. BTW, I have seen pix of neither. jus sayin

[Big L]

Originally Posted by Borgoguy

If you go back, you're a complete idiot. Go forward, not back to former problems.

Sounds like you have a great girlfriend. Stay with her to determine if she is "the one". If not, go find someone else other than your ex-wife.

Rags is neglecting to tell us his son is 23 and married with two kids himself.



Anyways, for the record, I'm with Borgo on this one. Always forward, never backward.

[thebigragu]

Originally Posted by Bonhomme Richard

Dude, come on. You're answering your own question here. Crawl back on your hands and knees if that's what it takes.

I know there's nothing sexier,then a woman folding your clothes in the laundry room in a g string and your t shirt when the kids at grandmas and there's a,sauce on the stove.

One memory. It's all coming back to me now

[thebigragu]

Originally Posted by Big L

Rags is neglecting to tell us his son is 23 and married with two kids himself.



Anyways, for the record, I'm with Borgo on this one. Always forward, never backward.

Lol he's a little boy he's only ten

[thebigragu]

Originally Posted by leftturn3

Find me a hot Asian over 40-45, hard to do, they just do not hold up for some reason.

Asian's in their prime (20-30) are just some of the most unbelievable looking girls I have ever seen, just so hot, after thsat they hit the wall.

Staying power, advantage most likely EX.

That's ****ing true. She's hot but she was wsy hotter years ago. It's like she's morphing into another person. F it ill post a picture.

[thebigragu]

[crasherino]

Originally Posted by thebigragu

A fuking red X!

NEWMAN!

[thebigragu]

Originally Posted by crasherino

A fuking red X!

NEWMAN!

Im on my phone and stressed out shut your fook up and give me time. Plus photobucket id all f up

[chesapeakejet]

Originally Posted by Borgoguy

If you go back, you're a complete idiot. Go forward, not back to former problems.

Sounds like you have a great girlfriend. Stay with her to determine if she is "the one". If not, go find someone else other than your ex-wife.

Recuse yourself. You read "Asian" in his post and didn't read anything further.

[chesapeakejet]

In the immortal words of George Thorogood..

"Who do you love?"

Normally I'd say don't look back, but YOU were the one that was the catalyst for the breakup, no?