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    OT: need opinions if i shoudl tell friend info about his wife

    so a friend of mine was looking through some escort websites and he came across one that showed an available girl who happens to be a friend of ours wife. now, this friend hasn't exactly been the best most trustworthy friend. he's done some shady stuff. but we arew trying to decide if we should sit him down and tell him the news that his wife is whoring herself out. there are kid sinvolved, and the both of them are a bit reckless with doing drugs and stuff. i feel bad for the kids, mostly. maybe a call to dyfs would be the way to go. i just don't know, i'm still kind of in shock, and am not quite sure what to do.

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    I would rat the dirty ***** out....Seems like they deserve one another...

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    If he is shady and into drugs - He might know all about it

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    Better post a pic so we have all the info and can help advise you :yes:

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    [QUOTE=Buzzsaw]Better post a pic so we have all the info and can help advise you :yes:[/QUOTE]

    lol. no i can't do that. as for the other responses, i know he is into doing stupid crap, but i'm pretty sure he doesn't know about his wife being a whore. anyway, maybe if we tell him it would be a wake-up call, and he'll try to fix his life.

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    [QUOTE=neckdemon]so a friend of mine was looking through some escort websites and he came across one that showed an available girl who happens to be a friend of ours wife. now, this friend hasn't exactly been the best most trustworthy friend. he's done some shady stuff. but we arew trying to decide if we should sit him down and tell him the news that his wife is whoring herself out. there are kid sinvolved, and the both of them are a bit reckless with doing drugs and stuff. i feel bad for the kids, mostly. maybe a call to dyfs would be the way to go. i just don't know, i'm still kind of in shock, and am not quite sure what to do.[/QUOTE]

    listen if you are a friend of his you"ll tell him..all i know is if my girl was doing that i would want a friend telling me...

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    [QUOTE=Buzzsaw]Better post a pic so we have all the info and can help advise you :yes:[/QUOTE]

    lol

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    [QUOTE=Buzzsaw]Better post a pic so we have all the info and can help advise you :yes:[/QUOTE]
    Sar is that you?

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    [QUOTE=neckdemon]so a friend of mine was looking through some escort websites and he came across one that showed an available girl who happens to be a friend of ours wife. now, this friend hasn't exactly been the best most trustworthy friend. he's done some shady stuff. but we arew trying to decide if we should sit him down and tell him the news that his wife is whoring herself out. there are kid sinvolved, and the both of them are a bit reckless with doing drugs and stuff. i feel bad for the kids, mostly. maybe a call to dyfs would be the way to go. i just don't know, i'm still kind of in shock, and am not quite sure what to do.[/QUOTE]

    o didnt read that part if hes shady he"s probably pimpin her like a peice of shyt...his own wife..

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    [QUOTE=neckdemon]so a friend of mine was looking through some escort websites and he came across one that showed an available girl who happens to be a friend of ours wife. now, this friend hasn't exactly been the best most trustworthy friend. he's done some shady stuff. but we arew trying to decide if we should sit him down and tell him the news that his wife is whoring herself out. there are kid sinvolved, and the both of them are a bit reckless with doing drugs and stuff. i feel bad for the kids, mostly. maybe a call to dyfs would be the way to go. i just don't know, i'm still kind of in shock, and am not quite sure what to do.[/QUOTE]

    How much does she charge?

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    [QUOTE=adione718]o didnt read that part if hes shady he"s probably pimpin her like a peice of shyt...his own wife..[/QUOTE]

    no he's not pimping her. the site she is on is pimping her out. he thinks she is bartending at a sh*tty strip club around here. maybe she is working at both places, but i know for a fact that she is not bartending there, she's dancing. no way he knows she's whoring, i think he's gonna freak out if we tell him.

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    [QUOTE=PatsFanTX]How much does she charge?[/QUOTE]

    i think it's $500 for basement visits.

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    You have to tell him.

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    Is your friend that found her on the internet Jetman67 by chance?

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    dude, listen

    you never ever want to get involved in your friend's love life, serious sheet man

    you have several choices here, first is obviously to tell him and that will likely result in him resenting you and blaming you in part for the whole mess

    second he may already know and you'll lose him as a friend

    third is to do nothing and he'll likely find out one day on his own but you wouldnt have embarrassed him

    if he finds out and still stays with her by some chance she will never let him be friends with you again most likely

    so that leads me to my reccomendation which is to make an anonymous email address and send him the link in the email...call it 'john you must read this @hotmail.com or something like that, send it to him several times to make sure he doesnt ignore it and post the link or copy the pic and post a link


    that way he'll see it for himself and you wont be involved in the scandal mess and fallout, you'll be relieving your conscince as it seems you want to do and at the same time you keep your hands clean

    good luck

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    There is no good reason to not tell him, where is your dilema? Maybe you are worried of his reaction or unrashinable acts that will follow, but you have to look at the big picture. You can't let this info stay hidden, that is the worst thing that you can do now.

    With kids involved, have these types of parents can't be good for them. Tell the father and hope he does the right thing and cuts ties and straightens out, or get authorities involved (Nobody would want to do this).

    The E-Mail Idea is the way to go.
    Last edited by NY Sportsfan; 04-22-2006 at 01:06 PM.

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    The newspaper ad out of the paper and mail it to him anonymously. You will be a friend and also not have to deal with being the guy that told him his wife was a drive-through lane.

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    Send him an email....

    If you want to tell him the best way is to email him from a free account.

    Just sign up and write a descriptive title so he doesn't just trash it as junk mail. Something like.....

    Frank.... you need to see this about your wife Jane


    Then attach a link to the escort website.

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    wait i need confo on this wheres the link..

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    [QUOTE=jetstream23]The newspaper ad out of the paper and mail it to him anonymously. You will be a friend and also not have to deal with being the guy that told him his wife was a drive-through lane.[/QUOTE]

    lol

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