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    Girlfriend Advice Please

    Hey guys,

    I do not post often but come here for information. I kind of need to ask you guys for some advice. My GF and I just moved in together and we are both in our early 30's. However, she maintains friendships with her ex-BF's...not all...but a few. So one of them just moved back to NY after living somewehere out west. They have known each other for 14 years, 5 of which they went out. She says he is a valued friend. Now here is the kicker, they have not seen each other in 2 years. She wants him to come over on Saturday night to our place while I am at work to hang out and catch up. He will also be bringing "brownies" over. I told her I don't like it...but I trust her in that she wouldnt do anything wrong. However, I am the bad guy for not liking it...WTF.

    Any thoughts are appreciated...

    Thanks ahead of time and please remember...this is my GF...so please keep it clean....

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    he will try to boink her

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    [QUOTE=jetswin;3269251]he will try to boink her[/QUOTE]

    My thoughts exactly

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    love these threads. should be good.

    you shouldnt like it. they can be friends who talk once in a while dont need to see each other.

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    [QUOTE=Destroyer of Senses;3269250]Hey guys,

    I do not post often but come here for information. I kind of need to ask you guys for some advice. My GF and I just moved in together and we are both in our early 30's. However, she maintains friendships with her ex-BF's...not all...but a few. So one of them just moved back to NY after living somewehere out west. They have known each other for 14 years, 5 of which they went out. She says he is a valued friend. Now here is the kicker, they have not seen each other in 2 years. She wants him to come over on Saturday night to our place while I am at work to hang out and catch up. He will also be bringing "brownies" over. I told her I don't like it...but I trust her in that she wouldnt do anything wrong. However, I am the bad guy for not liking it...WTF.

    Any thoughts are appreciated...

    Thanks ahead of time and please remember...this is my GF...so please keep it clean....

    P[/QUOTE]

    That would be totally inappropriate in my book. I would not tolerate it.

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    [QUOTE=Destroyer of Senses;3269254]My thoughts exactly[/QUOTE]
    sorry dude, she may be honest with you but don't trust the guy

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    I dont like it.

    I think you should put your foot down.

    If she objects, then buh by.

    Life is too short.

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    [QUOTE=jetswin;3269257]sorry dude, she may be honest with you but don't trust the guy[/QUOTE]

    And thats what I have been saying...thank you bro

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    ask her if you can have a girl over you are good friends with while she is not there and get f'd up and see if she is fine with it?

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    [QUOTE=sect313;3269268]ask her if you can have a girl over you are good friends with while she is not there and get f'd up and see if she is fine with it?[/QUOTE]

    LOL...she said she would be fine with it...which is BS

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    You are correct man. I would not like it either. No offense to your girl but its rude on her part as well. If you were there then its somewhat ok.

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    Tell her it is ok. Set up a nanny cam, with the feed directly to me. I will call you and let you know whats going on.

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    Listen, if she insists on going through this, have JetsRuleisReadyfortheShaft hide in the closet while you are at work.

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    [QUOTE=Destroyer of Senses;3269273]LOL...she said she would be fine with it...which is BS[/QUOTE]

    yeah thats total bs. tried that one before and the ex had a hissy fit

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    Trust her? Trust her? You actually trust her? That's the first mistake right there. He definitely is gonna try to get with her - I mean, be honest guys if she is hot wouldn't that be what most of us on here would do?

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    [QUOTE=Mike D;3269276]Tell her it is ok. Set up a nanny cam, with the feed directly to me. I will call you and let you know whats going on.[/QUOTE]

    HAHAHAHA!!!! Love it!

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    [QUOTE=Mike D;3269276]Tell her it is ok. Set up a nanny cam, with the feed directly to me. I will call you and let you know whats going on.[/QUOTE]

    this is actually a great idea

    (except for the feed to Mike D) :)

    set up the camera... (one in your bedroom, one in the living room) and then you'll really know what kind of girl you are dealing with

    you might want to say no just to prevent this situation from ever occurring but the truth is if you want to build something with this person you'd better find out sooner or later.

    say yes to the brownies, say yes to the ex visiting and put her to the test.

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    Screw that. Why can't she invite him when you're around?

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    wake up and smell the nasty smegma amigo.

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    [QUOTE=Tyler Durden;3269289]Screw that. Why can't she invite him when you're around?[/QUOTE]

    Cause I have already said I want to impale him

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