Trying everything possible to make your colors and logo not quite so gay only to realize it is futile. Also, being inundated by JETS' fans every home game against the gang green. I swear there must be as many Jets' fans in that stadium as there are fishdicks.
I'd say going to the games. As mentioned the Jets games do have tons of you people at Sun Shark Robbie Playerphin Stadium. Then the stadium's a soul-less hell hole, and an expensive one at that. Plus, it's hotter than hell for 11 months of the year.
In regards to the gay thing:
Jets fans are just as much a part of the problem as anyone. Not that gay guys are a problem. In fact, they're pretty awesome when it comes to boosting property values. All that leftover income from not raising kids goes right into fixing up their houses and generally improving stuff.