My definition would be . . . Once a week or worse, once a month. Having to beg. She doesn't shave her legs or more importantly, groom her . . . She lies in bed like a dead fish. Once you finish, she rolls over and goes to bed.
I say it with love of course. I've been with my wife for almost 9 years without a problem. Do I get urges of course. Women who flirt and hit on me? Yes, but to that extent. I'll be stuck at 1 for a while.
Some of these posts validate why I do not believe in marriage...
To the question one guy
What about kids and having a family and shared experiences?
I'd give anything to have my wife back to reminice about the times we had in college, or living in Brooklyn, or the trips, or the kids first steps, or the graduations or just the silly stuff from the past or looking towards the future as the kids grow older.
For me, it's those shared experiences I miss most, give up anything to have that back.