Let no man break apart what God has put together. You say your past helped destroy what you had. You're a new man now, a better man. I believe marriage is a one and done deal. IMO, you owe to the three of you to see if it can work. If it doesn't, well at least you tried.
Yes I understand that and have seen it too. But borgo the problem seriously was my drinking and insane temper. I do feel I owe it to her to see what im like sober. Drinking in my case is never an option again. It,would literally be jumping off a bridge. She really got the worst of the worst with me and still tried,to make it work. Know what im saying
If you have to talk yourself into going back that speaks volumes. While I'm sure your temper/drinking exacerabated the issues I'm sure there were some underlying things that ultimately didn't make you compatible. We're all wired a certain way...kinda hard to change that. The only thing you owe to anyone is your kid. He needs two happy and stable parents in his life but you both will likely be niether if you get back together and the first date aura of reconcilliation wears off. - Dr. Phil Reign