A good friend of mine was in a similar situation. He was separated from his wife and they had three kids. She was already shacked up with someone else (in front of the kids). He met this very hot Asian chick and after a couple of years decided he wanted to marry her (while he was still just separated from his wife). He then went back to his wife and told her that. The wife proceeded to turn it around on the spot and asked my friend to go back with her for the sake of the kids. He decided to do it. I believe that he has been very happy and has not regretted it and has gotten over the Asian chick. The Asian chick apparently had considerable sexual talents which he decided to leave on the table.
I don;t know if this helps but my feeling is that you could do either one and make it the right decision. But the bottom line is if you feel that your son would have a great benefit you should consider a trial run with your ex. I wouldn't commit to it until you have lived with her for six months or so.
You failed to finish the most important fact, how does the Asian chick look now?
The guys that know well they know. Ff2 was quite fond of her. Anyhow she wants,to come and spend Christmas with me her and my son. Flash backwards I was a crazy alcoholic money making machine with serious character flaws that affected anyone even crossing my path. Treated her quite bad in the end. I was wrong and never blamed her for leaving.
Flash foward quit drinking liver disease liver transplant two years sober remarkable personality transformation I credit God and God alone. Sry atheist scum. Plumber.
Beautiful hot in the pants Asian girlfriend live in gf.,things quite serious. Though she is not done partying never had kids from Vegas and is flighty,sometimes.
Ex and,Gf hot equal but different. Edge no one
Sex gf is a freak. Edge gf
Ex has my,son and is a great mother and wife. Edge ex
Ex gf both great conversation fun to be,with. Edge no one
Ex feels we owe it,to our son to see if, with me being like I am now if we would have always stayed together. If there is still love there. So we should see what happens over Christmas. She has been very respectful of my relationship and said,she felt she just had to say it before the chance was gone forever.
Hampur you are once again making real life decisions. God be with you.
Let me know if you need a stunt cock it's my 25th anniversary and I feel frisky
I am currently in a similar situation as you, albeit on the opposite side of this. 1 year divorced from an amazing woman who developed an alcohol problem that disintegrated our marriage. We were together for 18 years. In that year, I have watched her turn her life around and become sober, driven , and mentally clear. She has reverted back to the person I loved mentally, physically, and spiritually.
I also have a really special girlfriend who provides things that she never did, but in the end it will never be the same. I am reconciling with my ex wife because she has proven to me by dramatically turning her life around that she is serious about beginning again. Like a phoenix from the ashes comes a new tier to the relationship.
Maybe you guys don't get back together, maybe you just become good friends. Either way it is healthy for you and your family to reconcile and grow from there.
OK Ragoots serious advice here,.. first of all as an internet friend (aka fake person) I can't tell you how happy I am for you and the fact you put your **** together. On the other hand I have no idea how much your ex had to do with your **** being ****ed up in the first place. That being said if you can be honest with yourself about continuing an amazing recovery and the fact that it was 100% on you than you should consider your ex..ifshe has any chance of pushing you back on the road to ruin run don't walk run away.