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    Need some advice

    So this is probably a dumb idea buts it's 4am and i can't fall back to sleep so **** it.

    My question to hampurnation regards a girl I am talking to currently. We have been talking for about two months pretty much going out once a week during that time period. I would say we are casually dating but I wouldn't mind if it progressed into something more. My question is should I get her something for Christmas? I would want to get her something nice but don't want to come off to strong. What do you guys think?

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    All depends on how far you have gotten in the relationship. One date a week for about two months = 8 dates which by 2013 standards is a lot. If you haven't slept together by now don't even bother getting her a gift with hopes of the relationship evolving into something more. Or get her one if it makes you feel good but just know that you will forever be a friend.

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    How far will you be sitting from her at Christmas?

    Do you wear a suit when talking to her?

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    Time to crank it up. I recommend a pic of your junk wrapped in a bow. If she's repulsed, you have just saved yourself a lot of money on future dates. No guy needs another friend he can't have sex with.

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    Get her Billy Joel tickets.

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    If you get her something that will remind her of you, like a scarf, etc., that will go a long way. If she wants something more, she'll wear it all the time. If she loses interest, you're out 30$. I don't see the problem of getting her a Christmas gift if it's modest, but thoughtful. It's the thought you put into it that will make the statement. You know better than anyone here if she'll be receptive to it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big L View Post
    How far will you be sitting from her at Christmas?

    Do you wear a suit when talking to her on the phone?
    Awesome, but enhanced

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    nothing says I love you like a dick in a box at Christmastime...


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    If you love something set it free. If it comes back after watching a drunken hewmo in a wife-beater singing Bob Dylan it was meant to be.

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    You've come to the right place.

    Have you mounted her?

    Depending on your answer you can get her either of the following:

    December to Remember/Jarred's or a nice pair of thigh high whore boots.

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    Give her herpes. It's the gift that keeps on giving. She will remember you forever!!

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    Why not?

    Nothing over-the-top, but something thoughtful. Not jewelry but so thing personal that shows you know what she likes. Something that has to do with one of her interests.

    I don't see the negative in it.

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    You've been friend zoned.

    If you were to make a move, personally, I wouldn't declare my interest with a gift on Xmas. Potential for disaster too great.

    "Oh wow...a diamond necklace;..how sweet.


    So what movie do you want to go see?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by FF2 View Post
    Why not?

    Nothing over-the-top, but something thoughtful. Not jewelry but so thing personal that shows you know what she likes. Something that has to do with one of her interests.

    I don't see the negative in it.
    I was thinking jewelry, seems easy.

    And no dicks, I havent been friend zoned. Allready hit it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ruby2 View Post
    I was thinking jewelry, seems easy.

    And no dicks, I havent been friend zoned. Allready hit it.
    Ah that's different. From your OP it sounded like all you guys were doing was talking and going out.

    Get her the pair of interactive bra and panties that you can stimulate using your iphone. PM JT, he may have a sale going.

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    I'm simply amazed that people come to an off-topic football forum to ask for relationship advice...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Peebag View Post
    I'm simply amazed that people come to an off-topic football forum to ask for relationship advice...
    You don't have that problem. The sheep don't talk back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ruby2 View Post
    I was thinking jewelry, seems easy.

    And no dicks, I havent been friend zoned. Allready hit it.
    Well you didn't mentioned you hit it!

    Jewelry is fine. Do you know any close friends of hers that can recommend what she likes?

    personally I suck at picking out jewelry and I've known Mrs. FF2 for 150 years.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Peebag View Post
    I'm simply amazed that people come to an off-topic football forum to ask for relationship advice...
    +1.

    This is the place for MEDICAL advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ruby2 View Post
    I was thinking jewelry, seems easy.

    And no dicks, I havent been friend zoned. Allready hit it.
    Speaking of JT... I'll steal this idea from another guy.

    Get her a pair of whore boots and a dildo. Then if she doesn't like the boots she can go **** herself.

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