So this is probably a dumb idea buts it's 4am and i can't fall back to sleep so **** it.
My question to hampurnation regards a girl I am talking to currently. We have been talking for about two months pretty much going out once a week during that time period. I would say we are casually dating but I wouldn't mind if it progressed into something more. My question is should I get her something for Christmas? I would want to get her something nice but don't want to come off to strong. What do you guys think?
All depends on how far you have gotten in the relationship. One date a week for about two months = 8 dates which by 2013 standards is a lot. If you haven't slept together by now don't even bother getting her a gift with hopes of the relationship evolving into something more. Or get her one if it makes you feel good but just know that you will forever be a friend.
Time to crank it up. I recommend a pic of your junk wrapped in a bow. If she's repulsed, you have just saved yourself a lot of money on future dates. No guy needs another friend he can't have sex with.
If you get her something that will remind her of you, like a scarf, etc., that will go a long way. If she wants something more, she'll wear it all the time. If she loses interest, you're out 30$. I don't see the problem of getting her a Christmas gift if it's modest, but thoughtful. It's the thought you put into it that will make the statement. You know better than anyone here if she'll be receptive to it.