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    Wife is pregnant again. Serious thread no F around please

    She lost the last one a girl at 6 months due to some awful one in a million shot disorder after we bought all the stuff bigger place etc etc.
    Then they wanted her to carry the dead baby to term instead of trying to remove it. I found a specialist out of state who performed the surgery for her. Anyhow we're up there in age im 38 shes 40 and we were told we had zero chance of having another after that surgery. So she prayed and prayed and without any medical help she's pregnant again by the grace of God.

    All I'm asking is for THOSE that do have FAITH and pray to please include us in your prayers, it would be greatly appreciated, and between this and my liver disease I have seen the power of prayer first hand , thanks alot.

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    Oh, no, wait- Godspeed, buddy. Wishin the best for you.

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    Ugh, after 6 months that's brutal.

    Not a praying kinda guy, but you have my best wishes.

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    Congratulations and absolutely good luck and wishes.

    Seriously, not being a smart ass.
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    Quote Originally Posted by thebigragu View Post
    She lost the last one a girl at 6 months due to some awful one in a million shot disorder after we bought all the stuff bigger place etc etc.
    Then they wanted her to carry the dead baby to term instead of trying to remove it. I found a specialist out of state who performed the surgery for her. Anyhow we're up there in age im 38 shes 40 and we were told we had zero chance of having another after that surgery. So she prayed and prayed and without any medical help she's pregnant again by the grace of God.

    All I'm asking is for THOSE that do have FAITH and pray to please include us in your prayers, it would be greatly appreciated, and between this and my liver disease I have seen the power of prayer first hand , thanks alot.

    All good thoughts and prayers with you both. Think positively.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Warfish View Post
    Congratulations and absolutely good luck and wishes.

    Seriously, not being a smart ass.
    Ahh sometimes fish you're more clever then I give you credit for. Like a cobra just waiting all coiled up for that perfect moment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thebigragu View Post
    Ahh sometimes fish you're more clever then I give you credit for. Like a cobra just waiting all coiled up for that perfect moment.
    Nothing but love Rags, nothing but love my friend. Good luck.

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    How far along is she?

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    Thoughts and prayers bud.

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    I saw the thread title and thought "Man, that Plumber Khan guy doesn't mess around!"

    I wish you and your wife the best Ragu.

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    Thread title should have been "The Ragu seed shall not be denied b****es."

    prayers and positive vibes

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    Quote Originally Posted by RaoulDuke View Post
    How far along is she?
    3 or 4 weeks I think she said. Good thing is she is the director of a big doctors office in the city so they are watching her very very close, doing all types of testing things I never heard of. I already have a son with the ex and that was smooth sailing

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    Quote Originally Posted by thebigragu View Post
    3 or 4 weeks I think she said. Good thing is she is the director of a big doctors office in the city so they are watching her very very close, doing all types of testing things I never heard of. I already have a son with the ex and that was smooth sailing
    never heard of that before...whats the reason they wanted her to still carry the baby?

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    Now the other question is how do I tell her I just couldn't bring myself to throw out or give away all that expensive stuff we bought and put it in a weather proof storage facility. Do I just shutup and wait to see the sex of the child. Or say nothing ever at all. She told me I don't ****ing care just get rid of it...but she was angry then. To be honest im terrified to even hint at it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 2foolish197 View Post
    never heard of that before...whats the reason they wanted her to still carry the baby?
    It's quite common if the woman doesn't take medical advice and holds out for any chance of the baby living. They can do alot of damage once that big, ours was a bit bigger because it had grown some type of fluid sac all around the whole body. It was f up I really hate talking about it. They said it was much safer to carry it to term is all I know. But there was no way I was taking her to give birth to a dead child so I found someone that agreed to do it. Not cheap and insurance doesn't pay

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    Quote Originally Posted by thebigragu View Post
    Now the other question is how do I tell her I just couldn't bring myself to throw out or give away all that expensive stuff we bought and put it in a weather proof storage facility. Do I just shutup and wait to see the sex of the child. Or say nothing ever at all. She told me I don't ****ing care just get rid of it...but she was angry then. To be honest im terrified to even hint at it.
    don't say anything yet...when the baby arrives it won't matter...

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    Quote Originally Posted by thebigragu View Post
    Now the other question is how do I tell her I just couldn't bring myself to throw out or give away all that expensive stuff we bought and put it in a weather proof storage facility. Do I just shutup and wait to see the sex of the child. Or say nothing ever at all. She told me I don't ****ing care just get rid of it...but she was angry then. To be honest im terrified to even hint at it.
    She probably will associate that stuff with the lost child...I'm no genius but I'd probably get rid of (sell?) all that stuff and start fresh when the time is right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by thebigragu View Post
    It's quite common if the woman doesn't take medical advice and holds out for any chance of the baby living. They can do alot of damage once that big, ours was a bit bigger because it had grown some type of fluid sac all around the whole body. It was f up I really hate talking about it. They said it was much safer to carry it to term is all I know. But there was no way I was taking her to give birth to a dead child so I found someone that agreed to do it. Not cheap and insurance doesn't pay
    Jesus...gotta think this is a blessing now...theres no other way to look at it...

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    Quote Originally Posted by shakin318 View Post
    She probably will associate that stuff with the lost child...I'm no genius but I'd probably get rid of (sell?) all that stuff and start fresh when the time is right.
    It's what I was thinking. And Id be the heartless basterd for even considering such a thing. Craigslist probably best move or ebay problem is she might spot it

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    Congrats and Good luck bud.

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